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By Coléa Henderson - March 15, 2011

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I like both these artists.

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Good Hair

By Coléa Henderson - May 14, 2011

I just finished watching a documentary by Chris Rock called Good Hair. It was a sincere look into the world of 'black hair'; it looked into relaxers (sodium hydroxide used to straighten hair) and weave (hair sewn/glued in), primarily, but also talked about other types of hair treatment and sources. The film was very informative for me as I have never gotten a lot of that stuff figured out, there's a lot of stuff out there. The documentary's sole purpose wasn't to inform the public of the extents black women go to to have their hair look good, it was more about the thought, heart, behind it. The term 'good hair' is something I've heard my whole life, it essentially means that the hair looks healthy straightened and is 'easy' to style like a white person's hair. Not "nappy". Growing up I had 'bad' hair because it wasn't relaxed/straitened. I wore braids and cornrows (see below) from the time I was 3 until I was 15...

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By Coléa Henderson - July 10, 2012

No, not the Mickey Mouse Club or the chocolate candies. Magic Mike. Yea, I said it. Yea, I saw it. Am I embarrassed/have regrets? No. Did I enjoy it? Umm, yea. I've heard lots of reactions about the movie; and being in the Bible Belt, a lot of them have been on the hostile, antagonistic side. This isn't a post defending my seeing it. I'm an adult who can see whatever the hell I want. It's more of a response, that'll probably get some flack, to people's reaction to the movie and the movie goers. My friends and I scored some free tickets for an early showing. I think we saw it over a week early. Basically, we'll see pretty much any movie for free, so that played a huge part in our viewing of it. Yes, there was nudity in the movie, no actual penises but there was plenty of man butt. There was also some female nudity, I think I saw a total of four to six breasts. The movie, however, was not ab...

Top 3 Guys I Attract

By Coléa Henderson - July 12, 2012

A couple days ago I joined a free dating site. A couple friends joined some, two different ones, out of curiosity and it's provided some fun stories. So I joined one out of curiosity and solidarity. Now, I realize this site's free, so anyone can join; since anyone can join, one will come across anyone. These are the top anyones that keep messaging me/showing interest in me on the site...and often in real life. 1) That guy. His main picture is one with him in the bathroom mirror using his smartphone to take a shirtless picture; Or he's leaning up against his car; or he's in his car (driving?) and apparently thought he looked good enough to take a seedy picture from bellow where I can see up his nose and count his chins. Also, he's never smiling. He won't, or possibly can't, use proper grammar and spelling in his 'about me' or messages to me and he doesn't seem to be a great/good conversationalist. Also, he'll address me as 'sexi...