Marriage and the church's handling it: A Retrospective List About a List
A looong time ago, early high school, there was this fad at the church I went to at the time, and probably other churches too, that had the teenage girls (I don't know about the boys) make a list of features they wanted their future husband to have/be. Of course they didn't want us to just put stuff like "must be super hott". They wanted us to think of the character of this alleged future husband of ours and they told us that in doing that, God would honor our list. He would actually give us even better than our list. Oh Golly!, even better than our list? I, of course, made a list. I was trying to be super deep. I actually think that was the time in my life when I was convinced that I would get married. Even more than now, when people are getting married like it's the flu shot. They told us that while God was making him (future husband) into the man I needed him to be, God was making me into the perfect woman for him. ...